Frequently asked questions

A medium acts like a telephone line to the other side, however they do not choose who comes through, what is going to be said or how it’s said during a reading.  An intuitive medium (psychic medium) is simply a communication channel between this world and the spirit world or other dimensions.  A medium relays the information they receive from spirit as best as they can.  While a reading will never take away the pain or sadness we experience when we lose a loved one, a medium can offer healing, peace and a certain level of evidence that the soul moves on after our physical body dies.  A medium often brings comfort, validation and evidence to you that your loved ones still exist by relaying information that they would never know about, other than if they received it from spirit.  They can also bring some knowledge into your own past, present and future when they connect with your own energy.  A reading often helps people heal mentally and physically and spiritually grow.  

Most people can be read as long as they come in with an open mind and heart, and truly want to be there.  It takes all three of our energies to get a proper connection for a reading.  Both in-person readings and Zoom readings are the same accuracy (if your internet connection works well), as it's the same exchange of energy happening between myself, spirit and my client.  Some people prefer to see me in person and others are fine with using technology from the comfort of their own home.   Zoom readings have also connected me to people across Canada from the East to West coast.

YOU can prepare for a reading by just clearing yourself from any expectations and going in with an open mind.  There's nothing wrong with hoping a certain spirit comes through, and I encourage you to actually ask them to be there at your reading before it happens, but it's best to come to your reading, let things happen in a natural flow and let all expectations go.  Nobody can force anything to happen.  I also ask that you let me know if something is resonating with you or not during the reading, but don't give me too much information right away.  Spirit often wants to say something to give evidence about themselves or someone still here so you know they are still watching over you.  Also know that on occasion, a spirit that doesn't have a personal connection to you may still come through.  Without you knowing during your reading, their information is often validated by someone else later on who may have needed to hear it.

For myself, as long as I am feeling healthy and my vibration is high, I can read for most people.   Every now and then, I cannot read for someone.  Sometimes someone has an energy blockage, their heart isn't open or ready enough for it, or it's just not the right time.  There's no one to blame.  I will often suggest to reschedule for another day or if I feel like I'm not the right medium for you, there are many others in this line of work.  I will be honest if I need to reschedule and I will stop the reading if my connection isn't feeling strong enough.   I do my best to get a good sleep and prepare my energy before every reading as well as set my intentions, however if I feel run down or feel like I'm catching a cold, it's best for both of us to reschedule.   

I believe there is a medium out there for everyone, so you will receive the messages you need somehow from the universe, even if that person is not me.

Mediumship is working with spirit by communicating with them through energy vibrations.  I feel things such as their personality, thoughts, or emotions, see images or symbols, smell things, hear things, and most of all I get an internal "knowing" from them of information.  Some of it comes through very clearly, and other times I have to interpret it as best as I know how or I get pieces of it.  Once they give me evidence that is clear to you who they are, they will often give me an awareness of something happening in your life or pass down a message they are trying to send a loved one.  This message is meant to be healing or helpful to you or someone you know.  If you don’t immediately recognize the spirit that has come forward, please don’t dismiss the information right away.  It's not always for you directly, or it is often information that someone else validates later on.

I suggest that you wait at least 8-12 months or when some new things happen in your life that you could use some guidance on.  If you have lost someone else since your last reading and are grieving, I suggest giving yourself a bit of time to start the healing process before you see me, but it's whatever you feel is best for you.  I believe you will just know when you need to come back.  I have some clients that have readings with me a few time a year, and others I may only read for once.

During the Covid-19 Pandemic, all readings will take place over Zoom.  I will be offering in-person readings again very soon in 2022.

Most private readings are held at my home in Brantford Ontario.   My home is not wheelchair accessible, but I also offer Zoom readings.  Please ask me if I'm able to book a private reading at your place if you are not able to connect online or at my location.  Many group readings are booked at people’s homes or at their work place with co-workers after hours.  I will go ahead and book group readings once the details have been discussed, the location and if it works in my schedule.

• When contacting Julie to request or book a reading, please do not list details about yourself or people who have passed.  I only need your first name, phone number and email address.  
• ALL BOOKINGS ARE MADE BY EMAIL ONLY.  You can contact me from this website, or readingswithjules@gmail.com.
• You CANNOT book a reading for someone else, unless it's someone coming with you that knows they are having a reading done.  You can however ask about gift cards (limited quantities).
• Please expect to book a time in advance.
• Payments can be made by cash or an email transfer.
• My location is in Eastern Standard Time.  If you are booking an online reading and are in a different time zone, please let me know at the time of inquiring.
• Children under the age of 18 are not permitted unless verbally discussed before booking.
• If you are late for your appointment and I don't hear from you, I have the right to cancel the reading.  I may have someone else booked after you.  Please be on time for your appointment.  
• Clients who cancel with less than 24 hours of notice for an individual reading, or no show will be rebooked at my discretion.
• Alcohol consumption is NOT recommended before or during a reading, as the use of alcohol or drugs can negatively affect the quality of readings and can even prevent being read.
• Readings for two or more people are held in the same room. This is meant to be for multiple people sharing the experience, even though different spirits and messages may come through for individuals.  Everyone is privy to the information that comes forward.  
• There is no set time per person and information is shared as it comes forward.  Not everyone in a group reading is guaranteed to receive a message, as a medium does not control what spirits come through or what information they receive.
• If hosting a group reading, the host of a group reading is responsible for collecting payments from everyone.
• Group readings are not meant to be dinner parties.  Please stick with light snacks/refreshments (please do not serve any seafood/shellfish (severe allergies).
• Please do not light scented candles or have very strong smells in the room whenever possible, as Julie received information from spirit by scent.

I will give you as much notice as I can if I need to cancel or reschedule.  I ask that you do the same for me so that I can fill your spot with the next person on my waiting list, please and thank you.  I ask for your phone/cell phone number on my contact form so that I have another form of communication in case of any cancellations or reschedules, just in case you don't answer your emails often.

I like to give each session my full energy, so I do not like to book too many clients at once or I will burn out.  I will reschedule if I feel as though my energy level will not provide a good quality session.  Your patience and understanding are truly appreciated.  

Zoom readings are currently booked on available weekends.   

Payments can be made by online email-tranfers or cash when that is preferred for in-person readings.  For readings,  I ask that you send me the correct payment before we start our reading that day, however I will not click accept on my end of the transfer until we have completed the reading.  Thank you.

Reiki is a form of spiritual healing that originates from Japan;  "Rei" means "universal life" and "Ki" which translates to "energy".  Reiki is a gentle energy healing technique based on the idea that life force energy flows through each and every one of us, and this natural energy can affect our well-being.  As a medium channel, energy worker and healer, I work with energy frequencies and chakras on a daily basis and know that we are our happiest and healthiest when our energy is free to move in a very balanced way.  Reiki works on the mind, body and spirit.  We are not only made up of a physical body, but an energy body and field as well.  Our chakras and energy centres can become blocked or imbalanced due to our life experiences and ways of dealing with them, and it is important to our healthy and our vitality to keep our energy balanced as much as we can.  This type of alternative medicine aims to relax, ease stress, help you mentally, emotionally and physically.  I have been working with universal energies for years and Reiki felt like a very natural step for me to take.  

I am looking forward to offering Reiki session in the near future, sometime in 2022.  I am fully certified in Reiki, but am being careful to have things set up properly and safely for clients, since I work from home during the pandemic.  

Yes.  I do sell gift cards., however I purchase a limited quantity every year so that I do not overbook myself.

GIFT CARD POLICIES:

• Gift Cards have no cash value and cannot be redeemed for a cash refund.  
• Please have your gift card with you at your reading to redeem.
• Julie Nikota has the right to refuse service or reverse any gift card purchase for any reason and return the funds to the purchaser.
• If a service exceeds the amount listed on the gift card, the redeemer is responsible for paying the difference at the time of purchase. 
• Julie Nikota is not responsible for lost or stolen gift cards.  Please keep your receipt in the case that I am able.
• Julie Nikota reserves the right to change these terms and conditions from time to time in its sole discretion.